Saturday, May 29, 2010
THE OFFICIAL LAUNCH
I LEAVE, YOU LEAVE TOO!
I have split views on this subject. I agree 100% with leaving your boyfriend/baby daddy/fiance/husband around your friend[s] if you TRUST your friend and if you TRUST your man. I can honestly say that I have no problem if I went to run an errand or went to go cook or step outside and leave my man with my friend[s]. It all depends on how well you trust them and how well you know them.
IF you know your man is the type to flirt excessively or cheat often...then you know damn well you can't leave his horny ass in there with your friend. No matter how attractive or un attractive you might think she is, as long as she has a vagina, you already know his ass will be trying to get it in.
I haven't dated a guy like that BUT I have encountered guys like that who were involved with my friends. One time me, 1 of my besties and 1 of our friends were at this guy my bestie was dating's house. They were in his room the entire time while and my other friend watched TV, anyway we were about to leave and my bestie said to let him know because she was giving directions to our ride. I went to tell him and he smacked my ass, bit his lip and said "Make sure YOU come back" and had the nerve to smile! That let me know that he would surely try me or any other female. Of course I told my bestie. And there have been numerous occasions where my friends steps out or whatever and they guy she's with tells me "I don't fuck with her like that...I want you...Fuck with a real nigga....Call me sometime" and other types of similar crap. Those are just examples of the guys you can't trust to be around your friends without your presence.
IF you know your friend is a hoe - don't leave them alone. Guys especially always laugh when I mention my hoe friends. Everyone has hoe friends. You know they're a hoe but you love them as a friend and they might be a funny or cool person to hang around. Establish who all your hoe friends are and don't leave them alone. As soon as you exit she'll be flirting or making advances and its not her fault..she's a hoe - thats what they do.
I have had hoe friends who have tried my ex-boyfriends while we were dating. Actually one of my friends was dating my boyfriend at the time's bestfriend and she went to chill with him, long story short she kissed on my boyfriend's neck and he fingered her. She called me crying -_- Like the fuck YOU crying for? I should be crying! Another time, I had a hoe friend that would come with me to my boyfriend at the time's job and he was even trying to hook her up with a friend of his. Long story short she got his number out of my phone and has started going up to his job without my knowledge. He told me - thankfully and I distanced myself from her for a while. Sooooo those are 2 examples of hoe friends that can NOT be alone with your man.
Besides that, I don't see the issue. If you know how your man is and how your friend is then that alone should tell you if you can leave the two of them alone. Having a peace of mind about that situation is the best feeling ever - trust me!
To be a hundred percent honest I trust my girl to a certain extent and I trust my niggas but to put them in the same room together and I'm not there I totally disagree. I'm not gonna front ima flirt to the core and if you're friend is bad even if I got a girl and ur friend is wit it I might lead her on. In all honesty. I mean I prolly won't fuck her but if I can get a little head out the deal why not? *shrugs* I know shyt like that makes girls sick to their stomach. But for the most part I'm faithful as hell. As faithful as you think you're friends are to you and your girlfriend as well there's always snakes in the grass.
There's always an "if" involved. What if your girl comes on to your homie you think a nigga gonna turn it down? Especially if the girl is bad? Umm let me think about that? 6 out of 10 niggas I'm sure would smash and keep that secret. And we fellas know how well women are with keeping secrets. The other 4 niggas would think about it. Which makes the situation worst because its premeditated. But then what if ya friend hits on your girl. How loyal is the female to shut another nigga down. Or is there a conflict of interest. One being such "Oh I kind of did think that his friend was cute", or "I'm sure this nigga can keep a secret, it's only once it'll never happen again". Than what?
I've been in the company of my ex girlfriends (girlfriend at the time) friends and flirted heavily before. Shit a couple of her friends even told me they wouldve let me scrape but I never went through with it. So I can just imagine the bullshit another nigga would do if they were even given the opportunity. I'm just saying.
Pretty much all I'm saying is once I leave my chick is leaving too. But wait I can't be biased. Because there are some niggas that look at ya girl like a sister and won't even think about hittin on her but that's a select few niggas. I personally never had any of my friends fuck with a girl of mines and I've never done it either but hey some instances do happen. Just have to choose your company wisely...
Signing Off:
Rob Ima_Writer Grant
